Talking to Your Loved One

Helping a senior parent overcome resistance to relocating requires empathy, understanding, and patience.

Here are some strategies you can use to support your loved one through this challenging transition:

1. Listen to Their Concerns: Take the time to listen to your loved one's concerns and fears about relocating. Validate their feelings and acknowledge the difficulty of the situation.
2. Provide Information: Offer information about the benefits of relocating to a senior care community, such as access to care, socialization opportunities, and safety. Address any misconceptions or fears they may have about moving.
3. Involve Them in the Decision-Making Process: Empower your loved one to participate actively in the decision-making process. Please include them in discussing potential senior care options and consider their preferences and priorities.
4. Address Practical Concerns: Address any practical concerns your loved one may have about relocating, such as finances, healthcare needs, and logistical considerations. Offer solutions and support to help alleviate their worries.
5. Highlight the Positives: Highlight the positive aspects of relocating, such as the opportunity to meet new people, engage in meaningful activities, and receive personalized care and support.
6. Offer Emotional Support: Be patient and understanding with your loved one as they navigate their feelings about relocating. Offer emotional support and reassurance throughout the process.
7. Encourage Small Steps: Encourage your loved one to take small steps toward relocating, such as visiting potential senior care communities or speaking with healthcare professionals. Breaking the process down into manageable steps can help reduce feelings of overwhelm.
8. Seek Professional Help if Needed: If your loved one resists relocating, consider seeking professional help from a therapist, counselor, or geriatric care manager. A trained professional can provide guidance and support tailored to your loved one's needs.
9. Respect Their Autonomy: Respect your loved one's autonomy and decisions regarding their living situation. While you may have their best interests at heart, it's important to honor their wishes and choices as much as possible.

By approaching the situation with empathy, understanding, and patience, you can help your senior loved one overcome relocation resistance and navigate this transition more easily.

For more information, please call 860-372-2583 or email smattingly@churchhomes.org.